The other part of me understood my position as someone unnoticed and unappreciated in my own life. I'd tried everything to fix things in our relationship, offering to go to counselling, working on myself, trying to communicate but to no avail. I really, really, did not want to hurt him. My marriage had been sexless for 3 years.

When people on Quora were asked this question, here's what they confessed. But how does one deal with it? Should one confront with their partner or seek pleasure outside of the relationship? While it's true that sometimes people fall out of love and begin feeling suffocated in their relationship which previously seemed like everything they'd ever wanted from life.